WHAT IS MEDIATION?

       Mediation is a process by which divorcing or separating couples meet with a neutral professional to work on a voluntary, compromised settlement of their divorce or separation.  The mediator will guide the couple through the decision making process to the point where the couple is able to reach a fair and reasonable settlement of their dispute.  Mediations are conducted in a relaxed atmosphere where couples can decide on the amount of time they want to spend discussing issues, and what issues are important to them.  At the conclusion of the mediation sessions, the attorney mediator drafts an agreement that is tailor-made for your family, and encompasses all relevant issues such as how you will parent your children, how the children will be supported, the need for spousal maintenance, and the division of all marital assets and liabilities.

IS MEDIATION FOR ME ?

Mediation should work for you, if you meet these four criteria:     

Mediation is not marital counseling!  Mediation sessions are used to actively work out the details of separation and divorce. Importantly, you must also be willing to compromise.  All mediated agreements are based on compromise.  There also must be an honest desire to work out your differences. 

Mediation is not appropriate when there is ongoing domestic violence.